I know people like the guy Holden is talking about. Self-important, privileged, ego maniacs. The guy Holden describes is a friend of Sally, his date. An Andover student, "George" embodies everything Holden holds in contempt. To be honest, I can't blame Holden for hating this person.
I've worked with surgeons and university professors for most of my professional life. A lot of them were normal, down-to-earth people. A few of them have even become good friends of mine. However, I have known a few Georges, as well.
Like Holden, I have little patience for people who thumb their PhD's or M.D.'s at me. Recently, I have become aware of a small group of colleagues who seem to think their advanced degrees give them the right to bully and humiliate anybody they want. I literally heard one of them say at a recent meeting, "I encourage you to earn a PhD, put yourself out on the international job market, get an on-campus visit, interview, and then land a job like the rest of us." Yes, this person made obtaining a tenured position at a university sound like some hero's quest for the Golden Fleece. And his answer for people who don't have the means or opportunity to pursue this course of action: "Get out of academia and get a different job." It was ludicrous and insulting.
A surgeon I know will frequently take the time before or after surgeries to discuss his opinions of over-paid public school teachers, lower-income African Americans, overweight patients on public assistance, and children with learning deficits. I have even seen him berate a terrified high school student about his tax dollars paying for her education. This gentleman thinks the world owes him instant respect and attention simply because he is fortunate enough to work in a high-paying profession and has the term "Dr." in front of his name.
I was discussing this very subject over dinner with a good friend from the university. He and I both come from similar, blue collar backgrounds. Before my friend earned his MFA, he worked in the food industry for many years. He knows how lucky he is to have a job that pays him to talk about books and movies and writing he loves. "Shit," he said, "I'd be doing the same thing drinking with my friends." He and I both know we are privileged to be able to do the things we do. Teaching at the university isn't our God-give right or duty. We don't "deserve" it because we spent a few extra years in college. We're lucky, and we know it.
All the Georges of the world have never progressed beyond an insular, middle-school mentality. They are the bullies of the playground. They eat the best grilled cheese sandwiches. They wear the best high tops. They go to ski lodges for Christmas vacation. And they talk the loudest, because everyone should know how important they are.
And I simply have no time for them.
That's a piece of Saint Marty's mind.
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