I am not a cheap person. In fact, I think that I'm pretty generous with everything I have--my money, time, talents, home, books. Sure, I sometimes get wound up about paying bills and putting a new roof on my house. Those are times when I let my fears get the better of me. For the most part, however, I will help out a person in need.
I do come from a family of frugally-minded people. I have relatives who are so cheap that they think going on vacation means hitting all the Goodwill stores within a 100-mile radius. It's frustrating, because those frugally-minded people have the most money, and, yet, they do nothing financially to bring themselves (or anybody else for that matter) any pleasure. They're going to be incredibly wealthy corpses at the end of their lives.
I'm not complaining about these relatives. I just don't understand them. I struggle to pay my bills, and I live in dread of expensive car or home repairs. But, if I have a friend or family member who needs cash or a car or a strong back--and I have the resources to provide assistance--I will do it. That's part of being a good person.
I think that's exactly how God wants us to live. With generosity and love. Sure, I still have worries. All kinds of them. When I shuffle off this mortal coil, though, I don't want to have to explain to my Maker why I didn't give a couple of bucks to that guy outside of Wal-Mart with the sign that read, "Any money will help." I believe that's what we're put on this planet to do, lend a helping hand.
Today's episode of Classic Saint Marty first aired last August. I wanted to see what I was worrying about a year ago.
August 2, 2014: Spider's Web, Walk, Phil Legler, "In Front of Our Houses"
A spider's web is stronger than it looks. Although it is made of
thin, delicate strands, the web is not easily broken However, a web
gets torn every day by the insects that kick around in it, and a spider
must rebuild it when it gets full of holes. Charlotte liked to do her
weaving during the late afternoon, and Fern liked to sit nearby and
watch...
I love E. B. White's descriptions of these
lazy afternoons, a little girl sitting on a stool in a barn, watching a
small gray spider weave a web. He truly captures the mood of childhood
summer days, when the biggest worry is whether the ice cream truck is
going to come down the street or whether your mother will let you run
under the sprinklers to cool down.
Now, at
the beginning of August, the dog days of summer are upon us. Today was
absolutely perfect. Sunny. Warm. Almost 80 degrees. All that was
missing was the tinkle of music from an ice cream truck. I went for a
walk this evening, just because it was too nice to stay inside. I kept
passing other people walking, and we would smile at each other,
sometimes call out "Isn't it a beautiful night?" or "We have to take
advantage of nights like these."
As I passed a copse of
trees and shrubs, I saw wild rose bushes draped in spiderwebs. The
webs were thick, gauzy almost. My nephew, who is a spider nut, has been
naming the kinds of spiders he's been finding this summer. One of the
spiders he identified for me was an orb-weaver. I loved that name, and
when I saw the roses covered in spider silk, I imagined it was the work
of a single spider. An over-caffeinated orb-weaver.
My
last Phil Legler offering is another U. P. poem. It's about Marquette,
Michigan, where Phil lived and taught at the university. It captures
the rhythms of life in this remote, shark-shaped swathe of land
surrounded by water.
Saint Marty hopes all his disciples have ice-cream-filled summer nights.
In Front of Our Houses
by: Phil Legler
It's hard to rent
in Marquette, Michigan; any day
the city's a buying place where most of us
believe we've settled
down, held by our monthly payments,
staid and dry-docked beside
lake and horizon.
The Mining Journal
arrives, washing the waves in closer,
two ships over the weekend to our front steps,
naming the vessel arrivals,
John Dykstra and Sparrow's Point,
listing tomorrow's docking,
at which harbor.
In winter, ship-
wrecked hunks of ice push up the beaches,
and downtown parking meters like frozen buoys
lean against buildings.
Winter is six months here; we need
our comfortable, high-priced
anchored houses.
But summer nights
we follow in the wake of cars
moving slow as boats drifting by the ore dock,
and those in the bay
where small craft warnings are up, tied
only to their sunset
still reflections.
At the upper harbor
quiet as dusk a ship is leaving,
its lights darkening the waves and windshields
tracing a gull
riding his shadow beyond the lighthouse.
In what deep hold are we stowed
away tonight?
The lake submerges
the city behind us like an island.
Even in front of our houses, owned by the bank,
the neighborhood lawns,
well kept, that stop at our streets at morning,
carry us out like boats
to Canada.
Confessions of Saint Marty
P. S. Tune in tomorrow for the launch of a new daily cartoon strip, "The Adventures of Stickman."
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Sunday, August 2, 2015
Saturday, March 31, 2012
March 31: Lottery, Rich End, New Cartoon
...He thought, if this man could be raised up now, what would be his foremost thoughts? Avarice, hard dealing, griping cares? They had brought him to a rich end, truly!
Scrooge has been brought to a chamber of death by the Ghost of Christmas Yet to Come. He is staring down at the neglected body of the dead man. Of course, Scrooge has not yet made the connection that the dead man is actually himself. His ego will not allow it. Instead, he wonders what this Lazarus would think if he was called out of the tomb.
Obviously, Avarice and hard dealing and griping cares haven't served Scrooge that well. While these qualities may have made him materially wealthy, in the end, his death brings no sorrow to any person. In the end, he is alone, bereft and unwept. It's a pretty sobering moment in the novel.
Yesterday, millions of people lined up to buy tickets for a lottery that was worth $640 million. For the price of a sausage biscuit from McDonald's, any person could purchase a chance at a half-billion-dollar fantasy. Yes, even I got swept up in this mania of greed. While the odds were hugely against me winning (I think I heard 176 million to 1), I couldn't pass up the chance to dream for a few, blissful hours. Luxury. Freedom from debt and worry. Maybe a new pair of jeans.
Of course, life isn't that easy. Obviously, I woke up to all the griping cares with which I went to sleep. I will have to go to work on Monday. I will have to somehow figure out a way to pay my mortgage AND car insurance AND water bills this week. I have to remind myself that avarice is not a virtue, that envy (while a very human trait) is not very healthy. I'm not into hard dealing. I believe in generosity, in helping out the less fortunate. That's what I've been taught.
Lazarus Scrooge has not come to a rich end, when "rich" is defined by friends and charity and good will. If that's the standard for being rich, I think I'm doing OK.
Saint Marty just wishes he'd been about six correct numbers richer in the lottery last night.
Confessions of Saint Marty
Scrooge has been brought to a chamber of death by the Ghost of Christmas Yet to Come. He is staring down at the neglected body of the dead man. Of course, Scrooge has not yet made the connection that the dead man is actually himself. His ego will not allow it. Instead, he wonders what this Lazarus would think if he was called out of the tomb.
Obviously, Avarice and hard dealing and griping cares haven't served Scrooge that well. While these qualities may have made him materially wealthy, in the end, his death brings no sorrow to any person. In the end, he is alone, bereft and unwept. It's a pretty sobering moment in the novel.
Yesterday, millions of people lined up to buy tickets for a lottery that was worth $640 million. For the price of a sausage biscuit from McDonald's, any person could purchase a chance at a half-billion-dollar fantasy. Yes, even I got swept up in this mania of greed. While the odds were hugely against me winning (I think I heard 176 million to 1), I couldn't pass up the chance to dream for a few, blissful hours. Luxury. Freedom from debt and worry. Maybe a new pair of jeans.
Of course, life isn't that easy. Obviously, I woke up to all the griping cares with which I went to sleep. I will have to go to work on Monday. I will have to somehow figure out a way to pay my mortgage AND car insurance AND water bills this week. I have to remind myself that avarice is not a virtue, that envy (while a very human trait) is not very healthy. I'm not into hard dealing. I believe in generosity, in helping out the less fortunate. That's what I've been taught.
Lazarus Scrooge has not come to a rich end, when "rich" is defined by friends and charity and good will. If that's the standard for being rich, I think I'm doing OK.
Saint Marty just wishes he'd been about six correct numbers richer in the lottery last night.
Confessions of Saint Marty
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