March 23: "View," Miraculous, Joy Fest

Billy Collins cloud watches . . . 

View

by:  Billy Collins

In the summer sky

a cloud with its mouth open

eats a smaller cloud.

Clouds are pretty magical when you think about it.  I remember spending hours watching clouds when I was a kid, finding walruses and penguins and dragons and Darth Vader.   According to Google, an average one kilometer by one kilometer cumulus cloud weighs around 1.1 million pounds.  That's 550 tons of water vapor floating above our heads.

There's so much in the universe that's miraculous.  I know I go through each and every day with blinders on, not really noticing things like one cloud eating another cloud.  Or bumblebees (they beat their wings more than 130 times per second).  Or the moon (it experiences moonquakes caused by Earth's gravity).  Or trees (there are 12 times the number of trees on our planet than there are stars in the Milky Way).  

Today, I hosted/attended an event at the library where I work.  The event was called the Joy Festival, and it was inspired by the spirit of my dear friend, Helen, who was an instrument of creativity and happiness her whole life.  We (Helen's friends) continued her mission today, lifting spirits, acknowledging pain, spreading wholeness and healing.

My job was probably the most un-Helen-ish part of the day.  As the host, I watched the clock, made sure that the presentations began and ended as scheduled.  Relatively.  Helen never really paid that much attention to time.  We all base our days on Greenwich Mean Time.  Helen ran on Helen Joy Time.  Standing around the Joy Center kitchen, eating crackers and chocolates and hummus, was just as important to her as the poetry workshop or meditation or yoga.  It was all part of the experience.

Helen loved every part of life, from joy to grief and back again.  She embraced the entire mess, and she taught others to do the same.  On a typical Helen day, she would slip sandals on her feet in the morning and go for a 20-plus mile hike, ending up on the shores of Lake Superior.  Along the way, she would run into friends and soon-to-be friends (everyone she met eventually became her friend); stop to forage raspberries when she got hungry; and, when she reached the shores of Superior, she would celebrate her adventure by greeting the seagulls and wading in the water.

Helen was like a cloud--immense and weightless at the same time.  She could be an otter or Queen Elizabeth.  She feasted on each day as if it was going to be her last.  

In short, Helen was a miracle in Saint Marty's life. 

August 25: ""When Death Comes," Joy Fest, "Martian Girl"

Mary Oliver has some death wishes . . . 

When Death Comes

by:  Mary Oliver

When death comes

like the hungry bear in autumn;

when death comes and takes all the bright coins from his purse

to buy me, and snaps the purse shut;

when death comes

like the measle-pox;

when death comes

like an iceberg between the shoulder blades,

I want to step through the door full of curiosity, wondering:

what is it going to be like, that cottage of darkness?

And therefore I look upon everything

as a brotherhood and a sisterhood,

and I look upon time as no more than an idea,

and I consider eternity as another possibility,

and I think of each life as a flower, as common

as a field daisy, and as singular,

and each name a comfortable music in the mouth,

tending, as all music does, toward silence,

and each body a lion of courage, and something

precious to the earth.

When it's over, I want to say:  all my life

I was a bride married to amazement.

I was the bridegroom, taking the world into my arms.

When it's over, I don't want to wonder

if I have made of my life something particular, and real.

I don't want to find myself sighing and frightened,

or full of argument.

I don't want to end up simply having visited the world.

Oliver gives us rules to live by, especially in her last line.  When Death comes knocking, you don't want simply to be a visitor on this planet, waiting for the mothership to come and take you home.  Like Oliver, you should be in the world, of the world.  Every day, another encounter with wonder and amazement.  Even the simplest field daisy is a gift, singularly beautiful.

I spent most of this afternoon preparing for something happening at the library tomorrow.  It's called Joy Fest, and it is a day-long celebration of my friend, Helen, and all the joy she brought into this world during her time on it.  There's going to be poetry and literature and music and singing bowls meditation and yoga and art and healing and chocolate.  And laughter.  Lots of laughter.  If there was one thing Helen loved to do, it was to laugh.

If all of that sounds like too much, then you understand in a small way who Helen was.  She was, as Oliver puts it, the bride married to amazement.  The bridegroom, taking the world into her arms.  She reveled in everyone she met, made them feel as if talking to them was the greatest pleasure she'd ever known.  If you knew Helen, you somehow knew that goodness and love were the most powerful forces in the universe.

Don't misunderstand me.  Helen was human, with all the attendant failings and struggles.  She sometimes gave into anger, sorrow, maybe despair at times.  Yet, she knew that even darkness could be beautiful, and she shed her light into it.  (I remember, in particular, the night after Donald Trump won the 2016 U. S. presidential election.  Helen and I had a particularly dark conversation, venting all of our fears and frustrations and worries.  At the end, after almost an hour of shared sadness, Helen said, "We aren't going to give up or give in, Marty.  There's more amazing people in the world than there are assholes."  And we laughed and laughed until we were crying.)

That was my friend Helen.  A Martian girl who visited our planet and fell in love with it.

Saint Marty is blessed to have had so, so many close encounters of the Helen kind. 

Martian Girl

by:  Helen Haskell Remien

Oh, Mother, don't tell me it isn't safe,

that we are rotting inside, that we will die

if we don't enter that ship and take off.

Don't you see!  I have tasted it, Mother, the salt of sea,

the ripeness of berry, the very soil we are standing upon,

and I have heard it, Mother, a sound more divine

than the voices of the high beings on our planet,

a song, these earthlings call it, emitted from

their own body home, and my body has moved

to this sound, felt it inside me, and the wind . . .

they call it wind, this wild air, and they have trees, Mother,

trees with names, giant sequoia, tiny scrub pine.

I want to cling to the trees.  I am not ready to say goodbye 

to the trees and to the sea that carries me in its currents,

not ready to say goodbye to the mountains

topped with the wonder of snow.  I want to dive down

into the white billowy bank and swim my way 

to a shore of crystal flakes.

Oh, Mother, must we go?

We have learned to feast at their table,

and I want the whole meal, here, on this planet

that is thrumming with an energy we have never felt before,

vibrating in its rocky soil.  There are rocks, red rock cliffs

that light up like fire, and there is a drumbeat

in these fiery hills.  Oh, Mother, must we leave

a place we have learned to love, that lights us up?

I will carry back with me the memory,

the vibration and love these humans

have dished out so freely, so unwittingly.

Oh, Mother, I will pack it all in my bag,

the laughter, the light, a song I have learned

that is now my very own.